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“蜗居”随想---The birth of mistress   

2009-12-12 22:14:41|  分类: 社会·杂谈 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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Not talking about disable development in house market and corruption of politicians reflected in the series TV programme “蜗居”, here I have drawn some conclusions  in relation to mistress as follows:


1--- Normal thoughts about human’s life

It seems no one could accept the concept of mistress, even if it actually exits wherever you go. As a normal life, everyone expect to have a normal life by going to university to learn a skill to live, having a chance to have a ideal lover to get married, having a lovely cute baby, and a big house as well as a good job with good payment. However, it isn’t always the reality.

 

2--- Desire (either mental or material)

Who can be named as a brave man---the one who has no any desire either in mentality or materiality!  The pity is, in this society, as a human being  no one can escape from the seductions of desire,  seeking for a better life and a productive desire to  succeed as a wish for everyone. People are longing to be respected in many ways. Like intelligence comes to materiality to achieve a good position in society, a high income, and the love happened either family or  between a man and a woman.  As a typical example we always love the one we want to love, to achieve human happiness. It is so complex that it melts into responsibility, commitment, moral and mental enjoyment.  Perfection is a desire but not a reality.

 

3---Reality

If people are unable to avoid the desire that might result from an ambition or aspiration, but trouble or sadness will always result as a consequence.  In the point of philosophy, anything needs to have a result. That is wherever there is a door it must have a key to open it. In this context, we should say something that happens is not out of thin air, but there is a root problem to be addressed when we face reality.

 

4--- Woman and man

We could find if we trace from ancient time that women are always accused as a cause of the ruin. As a unity of the cosmos, it is the product of the integration of man and woman. Woman are chased by man, it seems a natural human law. It could be named as a freedom of humanity if we can keep away from the morality. In modern life, it is advocated to quest for the natural freedom, which is to return to nature and is the essence of the spirit of human beings.

 

5---The vitality of the spirit

If we are unable to meet the needs of basic daily life, then desire for joys in spirit would not come to the top of your aspirations. It indeed brings human beings to their birth beginnings, namely doing something we really like to do, to get something we want to have. In essence, the desire is just as simple as this, if we could forget everything in the real world no one has a right to accuse that it is wrong to yearn for a big house, it is wrong to have the one you love, it is wrong to get what you want to have.  Unfortunately, there is a law to keep operation of society and there are invisible customs we have to follow when we need to live in the real world.

 

5--- Mistress

The mistress is a product of the desire of human beings that can fit in all aspects.  It happens anytime, anywhere, regardless of the reasons I have mentioned above. If we applaud pure love without any additional condition, it perhaps needs to be said that there is no reason to accuse the mistress. If we need to explore the conclusions, some questions on the concept of  love need to be rethought.

 

6--- Real mask of the love

It would be a self-cheating if who said the real love without additional condition. Why the love can happened?  Purely simple, something touches our heart either mentally or materially. There is no wrongness in seeking for the pretty; there is no reason to accuse for seeking for happiness.

 

In summary, I would like say it is the greed of human beings that creates all trouble and sadness. There is no an exception in either politics and economy or human love.  Namely, either mistress or woman is not the root of the ruin but the greed of human beings.

 

备注:


我对我的一个网友的博客关于蜗居 的评论:

很多事情是没有对与错之分, 只是立场不同. 如果宋思明清白, 他可能不是张市长的红人. 常言说,人常在河边走不可能不湿脚.

爱情是被人称颂的, 海藻的爱情也是美好的, 那是一种所有的女人都向往的追求的. 只是宋思明的现有婚姻造成了爱情的畸形. 但宋思明的原配婚姻同样是纯洁的, 只是时位移人,时过境迁, 这似乎是一个无法逃避的,无能改变的残酷的自然法则.

爱情是自私的, 宋太太会为了她丈夫而不顾一切,但不会为了爱宋思明去照看他的情妇还有他的孩子. 聪明的宋思明竞如此天真认为甚至相信爱情的宽容和博大. 

追求美好的生活同样无错, 那是人的本能,社会发展的源泉.

错在那儿?

一种制度,美其名曰是无形的政治文化, 人的生存文化.
贪婪, 人类的无止境的欲望. 

境界其实只是回归原始的起点, 一个家,一个爱人和可爱的宝宝,还有那一份能展示人类勤奋的工作, 这才是实实在在的生活.     所有皆空.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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