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"Christmas present”  

2007-12-22 00:18:51|  分类: 社会·杂谈 |  标签: |举报 |字号 订阅

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“Christmas present”
--- One true story


Yesterday one of my friend came over and show me one letter, which sent by unknown person. She looks like terrible distressed but no tears. I comfort her with coffee and some snack, even with one glass of wine. Then start the story she brought to me.


It is absolutely accusing letter, which stated each details what her husband did when she was away for work ( she usually take night shift for ages), such as went to pub how to seduce , flirt with woman, even had sex with her best friend. Attached with one form which is his husband statement for join in dating website-- “if someone come to my heart I am willing to pull my pants off to reunite”.

Here I would not waste my ink to display what that person described, let us first pay our indignation to my friend. She was here with me while everyone is busy to welcome the Christmas coming, the letter came in such right time even God will be willing and ready for the cross. In that letter also stated how stupid my friend is to love her horrible husband who never put her in his mind, could you stand for it? In the first place I really over reaction with it. In that instant I realised she may need to say something to release her sorrow.

I sat with her and ask what she is thinking right now. With shaking head still keep quiet, she refused to accept the reality, this is a shocking insult. I understand I know how much she love him how committed she is with her family, this overwhelmed her spirit, suddenly her back has gone, she was in a loss.

However there is no point to argue of which mean truth or just make horrible scenery, at meantime with my intuition I was aware of the case she knew before but just rejected to accept. I hold her shoulder could’t say anything; the room was in suffocating stillness.

The one truth I do understand the love to her husband would’t be changed, the only one thing is to learn more how to adapt to this situation, how to face her devout love. All of us knows it is hurting, and caused indescribable pain. She had two glass wine and had quiet sleep on my bed then went home even with little smile, I know what she will do next.

She will still be great wife and mother, nothing happened in her life, she has nice husband with all the good she admired, two angelic children, she still is happy and lucky woman in the world.

I wish I could pass message to her husband, I wish we cancel the word of defection. Let us imagine when you enjoy the romantic of dating online whether you think the word you said you should committed to, whether you realised that you tread in someone’s heart when you are dancing in the club, seeking for happiness of liberty while create another sorrowful life. How fair it is---

The desire of human being will be endless but where is the love return  --- Merry Christmas to her, to you, to everyone by my heart ----
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